Hosted by Ellen Krause
Relationship Questions Answered: How to Know if He’s the One (w/ Tiffany Dawn & James)
Have you ever wondered: How do I really know if he’s the one?
That question comes up in almost every Christian dating relationship. In this episode, Mentor Mama sits down with Tiffany Dawn (author, speaker, YouTuber) and her husband James to answer your biggest relationship questions about dating, discernment, and building a God-centered love story.
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Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro
02:00 – Ad Break
03:29 – Meet Tiffany and James
05:05 – Tell us about “Before the Ring” and why you wrote it
09:34 – What are three of the most important qualities to look for in a spouse, and why?
15:27 – What are the deal breakers?
18:01 – Does attraction really matter?
25:30 – What do you think is a common mistake that you see Christians when they’re considering marriage?
30:45 – Being on the same page in your faith.
38:33 – Tell us about your new couples devotional journal
41:21 – Keeping God at the center of your relationship.
45:47 – Idolizing your partner during the “love fog”
48:07 – Connect with Tiffany and James
49:21 – Favorite Bible study questions
54:10 – Outro
Whether you’re single, dating, or even engaged, this conversation will give you biblical wisdom and practical tools for navigating relationships.
Links:
01:12 – The #1 Question Christian Singles Ask: How to Know if He’s the One?
Tiffany shares how often she gets the same question from young women: “How do I know if he’s the one God has for me?”
Her encouragement? Don’t look for a magical sign. Instead, ask deeper questions about character, faith, and direction in life.
“Marriage isn’t about finding a perfect person—it’s about finding someone who’s walking toward Jesus with you.” – Tiffany Dawn
07:45 – Green Flags vs. Red Flags in Dating
James opens up about what it means to look for green flags—the things that show a relationship is healthy and God-honoring.
They also warn about red flags: secrecy, manipulation, or a lack of accountability.
14:32 – How Do You Know if You’re Compatible?
Compatibility isn’t just about having the same hobbies or personality types. Tiffany and James explain how true compatibility is built on:
“Attraction can fade, but faithfulness lasts a lifetime.” – James
22:10 – Should You Break Up or Keep Working on It?
Sometimes couples wrestle with the big question: Do I stick it out or walk away? Tiffany shares how to prayerfully process that decision.
She recommends journaling through these questions:
30:50 – Building a Christ-Centered Relationship
Tiffany and James encourage couples to keep Christ at the center, not just compatibility. That means:
They remind us that godly marriages are built on daily choices, not just emotional highs.
Resources & Scriptures Mentioned
- Tiffany Dawn on YouTube
- Proverbs 31:30
- 2 Corinthians 6:14
- Colossians 3:14
- Coffee and Bible Time Prayer Journal (to help you pray through your dating journey!)
Final Encouragement
Dating as a Christian can feel overwhelming—so many emotions, so many questions. But as Tiffany and James remind us, it’s not about finding a flawless person, it’s about seeking someone who’s running after Jesus with you.
“God doesn’t play hide and seek with His will. He’s faithful to guide you when you’re seeking Him.” – Tiffany Dawn
Read more about Christian dating in our post about Navigating Love and Longing.
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