Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak: Living Out James 1:19 in Real Life

Hosted by Ellen Krause

0:00 – Introducing James 1:19

Ellen and Taylor introduce the focus of the episode: James 1:19, a verse urging believers to be:

• Quick to listen
• Slow to speak
• Slow to become angry.

They reflect on how deeply practical and transformational this teaching can be, especially during emotionally charged or difficult conversations.

4:03 – The Humility of Good Listening

Taylor references Gabe Fluhrer* to discuss how genuine listening reflects humility and a Christ-centered heart. They reflect on how listening well requires abandonment of ego to tune in to the voice of God and the needs of others.

*Note: in the audio this quote is mistakenly attributed to Tim Keller.

8:56 – The Power of Carefully Chosen Words

The hosts explore the impact of being slow to speak, highlighting how impulsive words can damage relationships and reveal a lack of self-control. They emphasize that careful, Spirit-led communication requires:

• Abiding in Christ
• Resisting self-gratification
• and prioritizing wisdom over emotions.

19:24 – Understanding Righteous vs. Human Anger

Ellen and Taylor distinguish between God’s righteous anger, which stems from holiness and justice, and human anger, which is often rooted in pride or pain. Taylor points out that anger is usually a secondary emotion, often masking sadness or hurt, and discuss how unresolved emotions can erupt if not processed biblically.

25:16 – Practical Steps for Living James 1:19

Ellen and Taylor share practical ways they live out James 1:19, including immersing themselves in Scripture, seeking accountability, and asking God for transformation. Taylor emphasizes that growth comes through abiding in Christ daily, not through quick fixes, and Ellen stresses the value of honest Christian community.

31:16 – Prayer and Episode Closing

Taylor closes in prayer, asking for God’s help in transforming listeners’ hearts to reflect James 1:19. Ellen wraps up with encouragement that change is possible through Jesus and invites listeners to share the podcast and continue walking with God.

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Scripture referenced:

• James 1:19
• James 3:4
• John 15:5

Sermon referenced: The Look that Changes Everything

Ellen’s Bible: